As a marriage dissolves, some parents find themselves asking questions like, ?Should we stay together for the kids?? Other parents find divorce is their only option.
And while all parents may have many worries on their mind?from the future of their living situation to the uncertainty of the custody arrangement?they may worry most about how the children will deal with the divorce.
So what are the psychological effects of divorce on children? It depends. While divorce is stressful for all children, some kids rebound faster than others.1
The good news is, parents can take steps to reduce the psychological effects of divorce on children. A few supportive parenting strategies can go a long way to helping kids adjust to the changes brought about by divorce.
Why the First Year Is the Toughest
As you might expect, research has found that kids struggle the most during the first year or two after the divorce.2? Kids are likely to experience distress, anger, anxiety, and disbelief.
But many kids seem to bounce back. They get used to changes in their daily routines and they grow comfortable with their living arrangements. Others, however, never really seem to go back to ?normal.? This small percentage of children may experience ongoing?possibly even lifelong?problems after their parents? divorce.
Emotional Impact of Divorce
Divorce creates emotional turmoil for the entire family, but for kids, the situation can be quite scary, confusing, and frustrating:
Young children often struggle to understand why they must go between two homes. They may worry that if their parents can stop loving one another that someday, their parents may stop loving them.
Grade school children may worry that the divorce is their fault. They may fear they misbehaved or they may assume they did something wrong.
Teenagers may become quite angry about a divorce and the changes it creates. They may blame one parent for the dissolution of the marriage or they may resent one or both parents for the upheaval in the family.
Of course, each situation is unique. In extreme circumstances, a child may feel relieved by the separation?if a divorce means fewer arguments and less stress.
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